Can you take it?

One of my Christian sisters cheated on her husband

The man she cheated with came to Nigeria for Detty December, met her at the mall, and they exchanged contacts. He was staying in a serviced apartment building. He chatted her up, and she told him she was cooking for her family. He asked her to please make extra for him and bring it to his apartment. She did so

She left her husband and three children at home, told her husband that she was taking the food to a sick church member, and found her way to the other man’s apartment. They had sex. She returned home, and the husband suspected nothing. She did this again several times between December and January. Then the other man returned to the United Kingdom and blocked her. Apparently, the man was married. She felt used and dumped by the other man. She went online to do a deep research on him and discovered who his wife was, and also saw that he had children

She reached out to the man’s wife on Facebook and shared evidence of cheating with her out of anger. The wife of that man confronted him. He told her this sister was the one who seduced him by putting a love potion in the food she brought to him. He said he jokingly asked her to send him food, and she appeared with it, and from that moment, he lost his senses. The man’s wife reached out to this sister’s husband. Shared the same evidence this sister shared with her and everything her husband said about the love portion. Guess who has been thrown out of the marriage now?

The UK man is still married despite cheating, (Love potion) was his excuse to his wife. My Christian sister has rented a room close to the Nasarawa border where she is managing with her three children. The husband is alone in their terraced apartment now. Guess whose phone is not resting day and night? Guess who the husband calls all the time to rant?

Guess who the wife calls all the time to intervene so that she can get food and other things for the children. Guess who the sisters’ parents and siblings call constantly to beg and plead on her behalf? It is I. I didn’t do detty December. I didn’t eat the food she cooked. I didn’t eat the love potion

I didn’t sleep with anybody. I am the one praying, and calling, and listening, and begging. I am the one keeping vigil till 2 AM with the husband because I know if he is left to himself, he would get into a car, go to a club, pick up a woman, and slip into deviant behavior. The prayer is for him to cool down and reconsider his wife and children for the sake of Christ and accept them back into his life. To ensure that prayer can be heard, I am mounting guard so that another woman won’t come into the picture and complicate things. I didn’t kill my mother; she is still alive

Don’t kill me for my mother, I am still young. Stop doing things that you will make other people pay for in cash, kind, and labour. Remember my stripes, as Apostle Paul would say: I cannot deny my own brothers and sisters in the faith, even when they misbehave. I would prefer, however, that they do not misbehave in any way

Dear Christian sisters, please don’t cheat on your husbands for any reason. Walk away from the union if he is abusive, does not satisfy you sexually, is broke, you are bored, or looking for excitement. Take a short break, go to your parents’ house, or go and visit a relative. Do everything in your power not to cheat, no matter the temptation. Defending a cheating spouse is difficult

Defending a cheating wife, regardless of circumstances, is a thing of shame. You don’t have to get married. If you choose to get married, don’t cheat. Don’t put me in a position where your husband will ask me, “Can you take it?” and I will be stammering…

This is a plea

Thank you

-GSW-